What scares people
it’s not the things that we don’t expect
but those that are expected and inevitable, as clear as daylight, like death
it’s not the experience of new challenges and difficulties
but the realization that you are too lazy and timid to jump into the water
it’s not the loss of loved ones
but the thought of going through each day without them
it ’s not being a failure
but the probability that you can never come back from that failure